tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8504168141473295169.post2879144646212441796..comments2022-03-29T13:19:20.395-07:00Comments on Healing Earth: Parenting: Communicative Problem Solving - Exposure to HaraamUnknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8504168141473295169.post-29402555271401512662014-03-31T08:49:18.429-07:002014-03-31T08:49:18.429-07:00Wa alaykum ussalaam wa Rahmatullahi wa Barakatuh R...Wa alaykum ussalaam wa Rahmatullahi wa Barakatuh Rumaysa.<br /><br />Wa iyyaaki, ukhtee. I believe that it is universal that we have to CONSTANTLY remind our children of their actions, words, and tone. It seems to be an integral part of parenting, and one that takes a lot of patient perseverance. I often think it would make sense to make a recording, rather than saying the same thing over and over again...but I think of the expiation of sins I get, inshaa Allah, for the sore throat I get from talking so much, LOL.Mainoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8504168141473295169.post-13856356658731486132014-03-24T21:06:21.176-07:002014-03-24T21:06:21.176-07:00As'salaamu alaikum. This is a constant battle ...As'salaamu alaikum. This is a constant battle as our kids have a pretty big gap between the first two and second two. To be honest I try to change me own behavior and words with the oldest and explain why (i.e. For Allah's pleasure and set a good example for the children). Alhamdulillah despite some minor things, I've really seen a difference in the olders kids and insha'allah it will rub off on the younger ones. But I am CONSTANTLY reminding them of their actions, words and even tone, but I also allow them to correct me as well (in a respectful manner of course). Alhamdulillah I will use your exercise above to drive the point more at our next halaqa. Jazakallahu khirin for the post.Rumaysahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15900045083369854147noreply@blogger.com