Within families, and between siblings, there can exist a certain amount of jealousy and or envy. For some time I have considered the possibility that someone could have put the ayn (evil eye) on another within our nuclear family. I ensure that hasad (envy) in its various forms is clearly explained to the childen in their Islamic studies classes, however I recently had a brainwave, al hamdul'Illah.
After the subject of giving wudhu water to remove the ayn from an afflicted person was raised in a lesson, later in the day it was decided that we all give each other our wudhu water, to eradicate any ayn that could be on us. This ended up being a really positive and fun family activity. We all ended up with a big yogurt bucket each with the wudhu water of all the other family members wudhu water to fling over ourselves before our evening shower.
It was kind of funny, as everyone was trying to check themselves to see if they noticed a difference after the activity. It was an excellent reminder of how important it is to say maa shaa Allah, Allahumma baarik. There is a heightened awareness of the importance of saying maa shaa Allah, with far more reminders if it is forgotten, and a genuine desire to avoid giving anyone the ayn intentionally or unintentionally. We have decided to make this part of a yearly "maintenance program" within out Islamic curriculum. Al hamdul'Illahi Rabb il aal ameen!
A family with a mission: to escape the fitna (trials) of this worldly life by getting away from it all and living according to Allah's Perfect Decree to the best of our ability; to heal the earth through our most perfect examples in the Qur'an and the Sunnah, which in turn heals ourselves; and to teach others how to do the same, and give them a place to go where Islam can be lived and a life of worship enjoyed, in shaa Allah.
Monday, December 15, 2014
Sunday, November 2, 2014
The Healing Earth Family Cemetery
Another thing taken care of over the summer was the designation, zoning, and permission to have a private cemetery on our land. This, by the Mercy of Allah, was an extremely easy thing to do. We now have an area of between a half to one acre plot which will be used as a family cemetery, al hamdul'Illah.
It is part of our compulsory learning to know how to prepare, bury, and pray for a Muslim - males and females. This will also end up being the subject matter of yearly workshops to teach others, thus ensuring that we are prepared when someone dies, inshaa Allah.
Inna l'Illahi wa inna ilayhi raaji'oon - We come from Allah, and to Him we return!
It is part of our compulsory learning to know how to prepare, bury, and pray for a Muslim - males and females. This will also end up being the subject matter of yearly workshops to teach others, thus ensuring that we are prepared when someone dies, inshaa Allah.
Inna l'Illahi wa inna ilayhi raaji'oon - We come from Allah, and to Him we return!
Monday, September 29, 2014
Our New Schedule
Everything we do is, in some way, training for this life and the Next. We have changed our daily schedule for this school year, in order to prepare ourselves for the daily structure we will have when we return to Healing Earth next summer, inshaa Allah. We will have to stay up after fajr prayer to feed and milk the animals, our school day will be split up to ensure the the focal point - Islamic education - has greater weight, and the times are conducive to the milking and farm chores.
To get everyone's internal clock adjusted, we all stay up after fajr prayer and walk to a local park. There are three within a 10 to 20 minute walk from our building. There, the children have a chance to play while we catch up on our reading. The school schedule is five days a week, but Arabic and Qur'aan are every day of the week, as they must be an integral part of our everyday life.
To get everyone's internal clock adjusted, we all stay up after fajr prayer and walk to a local park. There are three within a 10 to 20 minute walk from our building. There, the children have a chance to play while we catch up on our reading. The school schedule is five days a week, but Arabic and Qur'aan are every day of the week, as they must be an integral part of our everyday life.
Sunday
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Monday
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Tuesday
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Wednesday
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Thursday
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Friday
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Saturday
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5:30 – 6:45 a.m.
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Walk to Park (children play & parents read)
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Walk to Park
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Walk to Park
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Walk to Park
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Walk to Park
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Walk to Park
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Walk to Park
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7:00 – 8:00
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Shower & Breakfast
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Shower & Breakfast
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Shower & Breakfast
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Shower & Breakfast
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Shower & Breakfast
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Ghusl & Breakfast
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Shower & Breakfast
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8:00 – 9:00
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Arabic Lesson
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Arabic Lesson
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Arabic Lesson
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Arabic Lesson
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Arabic Lesson
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Arabic Lesson
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Arabic Lesson
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9:10 – 9:55
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Qur’aan & Tajweed
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Qur’aan & Tajweed
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Qur’aan & Tajweed
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Qur’aan & Tajweed
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Qur’aan &
Tajweed
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Qur’aan & Tajweed
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Qur’aan & Tajweed
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10:00 – 10:45
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Hadeeth
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Hadeeth
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Hadeeth
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Hadeeth
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Hadeeth
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10:55 – 11:40
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Usool-ud-Deen
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Usool-ud-Deen
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Usool-ud-Deen
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Usool-ud-Deen
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Usool-ud-Deen
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11:50 a.m. – 1:50
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Break time to include lunch and salaat.
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Break time
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Break time
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Break time
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Break time
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2:00 – 2:45
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English
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English
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English
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English
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2:55 – 3:40
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Math
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Math
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Math
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Math
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3:50 – 4:30
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Science
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Social Studies
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Science
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Social Studies
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Sunday, September 21, 2014
Summer 2014 Progress Report
We plan and Allah Plans, and Allah is the best of Planners! This summer proved to be a lesson in acceptance and priorities. We quickly ran out of money, but we improvised, overcame, and adapted as Allah's Plan unfolded. Al hamdul'Illah!
Out of the big list of things we hoped to accomplish:
We bought the stock trailer in Tennessee, on our cross country drive to Healing Earth, maashaa Allah. It proved very useful, as we were able to transport our saplings, straw and hay bales, and various other supplies in it. We later used it to carry the wooden cable spools and to transport a live sheep that we slaughtered. We actually used it as a kitchen after that until the kitchen and bathhouse were built. As I whipped up honey soy salmon, egg fried rice, stir fried veggies, and Thai corn fritters for iftaar, we could see the potential novelty in taking it on the road as a traveling restaurant!
We managed to build a wooden 10'x10' structure, divided into three parts comprising two bathroom units and a kitchen. It was difficult, because Shariyf had to do it virtually alone, bi idhn Illah, as neither the girls or I had the strength to be of much use. We did what we could to hold up 2x6 boards as he hammered them in, but in the end it was through his sweat, backache, callouses, and cuts that Allah provided us with our little building. To us, with all it's imperfections and things still to be done, it is a beautiful blessing, al hamdul'Illah! I enjoyed cooking in comfort in the kitchen for the last week or so of our stay there...a huge difference, maashaa Allah.
We did not plant our sunflower seeds this year, deciding it would be best to do it next year when we are there to both tend to them and reap the seeds. Another reason was that Allah blessed us with many sunflowers already growing near the borders of our land, which came into bloom near the end of our stay maashaa Allah. With the plentiful rain, we had thousands of wildflowers, beneficial herbs, and edible plants interspersed throughout the wheat and blue grama grass that grew as tall as three feet in places. It was very encouraging to know there was plenty of grazing for animals as soon as the rains came.We dried some of the herbs, such as fringed sage, snake broom, and a type of mint. Next year we hope to harvest and dry the majority of the different herbs for our own use and sale in our farm shop inshaa Allah.
We took a road trip over the Eid ul Fitr where we first went to Santa Fe for the first day of Eid. We then visited Patricia in Chimayo, who breeds and raises Mammoth donkeys with her husband. We were welcomed and she took time to show us the donkeys, considering which would be suitable for our family and needs by next summer, and generously offered to train us, wa al hamdul'Illah. We now have things in place to go spend a few days' of training there next summer and buy a Mammoth Jack and a Jenny. We particularly want to raise these donkeys, as they are becoming rare to find, are larger than horses, exceptionally strong for work, intelligent, and very gentle for learning to ride on.
Our trip continued up to Taos and the following day we went to Robert and Joy, of handmilking.com, up in Questa. They warmly welcomed us and introduced us to their cows, chickens, and other animals. Here we were convinced that a Jersey cow was the best option for us and changed our minds from our original plan to get a Dexter cow. We felt a real connection with Robert and Joy, especially as they started out on their 5 acres with nothing and are building it from the ground up, just like us. They have offered to do a private training program for our family next summer, when we will spend a few days there and purchase our pre-trained dairy cows inshaa Allah. It was the third day of Eid and we mentioned that our visit to them was part of our Eid festivities along with plans to make some ice cream. Such a generous soul, Joy gifted us a quart of raw cream, 2 lbs of fresh butter, and 6 of their freshly laid eggs, wishing us a very happy Eid!
Many other connections were made over the summer, including enhancing and developing our relationships with the people of Roy, and Mosquero. We joined the Chamber of Commerce and were put on specific task forces - I am helping produce the Chamber's newsletter and Shariyf is part of the Geo-caching and Internet advertising. We learned what businesses are desperately needed there and what jobs are available and trades required.
Shariyf has been accepted as an apprentice by Ken Garrison of Star G Honey, to learn all about the business, from the planting of specialized crops and positioning the hives, to harvesting and packaging of raw honey, pollen, propolis, royal jelly, and beeswax. He has also offered to sell some of our baked products alongside his honey at the Santa Fe Farmers' Market. Tyler, the most amiable and helpful teenager in Roy, has agreed to teach Shariyf about raising goats.
Esther Mitchell is looking forward to learning to build with cob and coming to monthly "Meet Mai" afternoons, where I will teach sustainable homesteading skills, including cooking from scratch, making your own personal care products, and utilizing all the plants indigenous to our area inshaa Allah.
Both the residents of Roy and Mosquero have bemoaned the absence of a bakery, and we hope to meet that need by selling organic baked goods in Healing Earth's Farm Store and perhaps even a Tea Room, inshaa Allah. Left, right, and center Allah has presented us with avenues to make a living and learn the valuable skills that we will need to run our farm sustainably maashaa Allah.
We also have been greatly helped by Shelley Summers, who is the drop manager for Azure Standard, in Las Vegas, NM. She offered to pick up our initial order and keep it for us, so we had our bulk food supplies immediately upon arrival at Healing Earth. She gifted us with organic veggies she is growing as part of her CSA. She gave us a wealth of information on others doing similar things to us within a 300 mile radius. She showed us where to go for raw milk and cheese and informed us of a Muslim in Las Vegas who owns Blue Moon Fashions. Shelley gave us plants that were established so we could eat from them during our stay, seeds, a big bag of her delicious dried peaches, and some pinon salve that proved fantastic for all those bites, cuts, and scrapes.
For all these connections and so much more, we thank Allah - the Most Perfect Provider of every need! After that epic post I will end so you can rest your eyes, LOL, unless you want to see a few photos on the facebook page!
Out of the big list of things we hoped to accomplish:
- we bought a used stock trailer;
- hosted a family for a couple of weeks;
- hosted another brother for four days;
- planted trees along the alongside the dirt road inside the gate and some along the fence;
- got some wooden cable spools for use as tables;
- got 8 telephone poles for our projects next summer;
- built wooden "lovable loos";
- did a bit of soil preparation and landscaping; and
- built a solid, wooden 10' x 10' structure comprising 2 bathrooms and a kitchen.
We bought the stock trailer in Tennessee, on our cross country drive to Healing Earth, maashaa Allah. It proved very useful, as we were able to transport our saplings, straw and hay bales, and various other supplies in it. We later used it to carry the wooden cable spools and to transport a live sheep that we slaughtered. We actually used it as a kitchen after that until the kitchen and bathhouse were built. As I whipped up honey soy salmon, egg fried rice, stir fried veggies, and Thai corn fritters for iftaar, we could see the potential novelty in taking it on the road as a traveling restaurant!
We managed to build a wooden 10'x10' structure, divided into three parts comprising two bathroom units and a kitchen. It was difficult, because Shariyf had to do it virtually alone, bi idhn Illah, as neither the girls or I had the strength to be of much use. We did what we could to hold up 2x6 boards as he hammered them in, but in the end it was through his sweat, backache, callouses, and cuts that Allah provided us with our little building. To us, with all it's imperfections and things still to be done, it is a beautiful blessing, al hamdul'Illah! I enjoyed cooking in comfort in the kitchen for the last week or so of our stay there...a huge difference, maashaa Allah.
We did not plant our sunflower seeds this year, deciding it would be best to do it next year when we are there to both tend to them and reap the seeds. Another reason was that Allah blessed us with many sunflowers already growing near the borders of our land, which came into bloom near the end of our stay maashaa Allah. With the plentiful rain, we had thousands of wildflowers, beneficial herbs, and edible plants interspersed throughout the wheat and blue grama grass that grew as tall as three feet in places. It was very encouraging to know there was plenty of grazing for animals as soon as the rains came.We dried some of the herbs, such as fringed sage, snake broom, and a type of mint. Next year we hope to harvest and dry the majority of the different herbs for our own use and sale in our farm shop inshaa Allah.
We took a road trip over the Eid ul Fitr where we first went to Santa Fe for the first day of Eid. We then visited Patricia in Chimayo, who breeds and raises Mammoth donkeys with her husband. We were welcomed and she took time to show us the donkeys, considering which would be suitable for our family and needs by next summer, and generously offered to train us, wa al hamdul'Illah. We now have things in place to go spend a few days' of training there next summer and buy a Mammoth Jack and a Jenny. We particularly want to raise these donkeys, as they are becoming rare to find, are larger than horses, exceptionally strong for work, intelligent, and very gentle for learning to ride on.
Our trip continued up to Taos and the following day we went to Robert and Joy, of handmilking.com, up in Questa. They warmly welcomed us and introduced us to their cows, chickens, and other animals. Here we were convinced that a Jersey cow was the best option for us and changed our minds from our original plan to get a Dexter cow. We felt a real connection with Robert and Joy, especially as they started out on their 5 acres with nothing and are building it from the ground up, just like us. They have offered to do a private training program for our family next summer, when we will spend a few days there and purchase our pre-trained dairy cows inshaa Allah. It was the third day of Eid and we mentioned that our visit to them was part of our Eid festivities along with plans to make some ice cream. Such a generous soul, Joy gifted us a quart of raw cream, 2 lbs of fresh butter, and 6 of their freshly laid eggs, wishing us a very happy Eid!
Many other connections were made over the summer, including enhancing and developing our relationships with the people of Roy, and Mosquero. We joined the Chamber of Commerce and were put on specific task forces - I am helping produce the Chamber's newsletter and Shariyf is part of the Geo-caching and Internet advertising. We learned what businesses are desperately needed there and what jobs are available and trades required.
Shariyf has been accepted as an apprentice by Ken Garrison of Star G Honey, to learn all about the business, from the planting of specialized crops and positioning the hives, to harvesting and packaging of raw honey, pollen, propolis, royal jelly, and beeswax. He has also offered to sell some of our baked products alongside his honey at the Santa Fe Farmers' Market. Tyler, the most amiable and helpful teenager in Roy, has agreed to teach Shariyf about raising goats.
Esther Mitchell is looking forward to learning to build with cob and coming to monthly "Meet Mai" afternoons, where I will teach sustainable homesteading skills, including cooking from scratch, making your own personal care products, and utilizing all the plants indigenous to our area inshaa Allah.
Both the residents of Roy and Mosquero have bemoaned the absence of a bakery, and we hope to meet that need by selling organic baked goods in Healing Earth's Farm Store and perhaps even a Tea Room, inshaa Allah. Left, right, and center Allah has presented us with avenues to make a living and learn the valuable skills that we will need to run our farm sustainably maashaa Allah.
We also have been greatly helped by Shelley Summers, who is the drop manager for Azure Standard, in Las Vegas, NM. She offered to pick up our initial order and keep it for us, so we had our bulk food supplies immediately upon arrival at Healing Earth. She gifted us with organic veggies she is growing as part of her CSA. She gave us a wealth of information on others doing similar things to us within a 300 mile radius. She showed us where to go for raw milk and cheese and informed us of a Muslim in Las Vegas who owns Blue Moon Fashions. Shelley gave us plants that were established so we could eat from them during our stay, seeds, a big bag of her delicious dried peaches, and some pinon salve that proved fantastic for all those bites, cuts, and scrapes.
For all these connections and so much more, we thank Allah - the Most Perfect Provider of every need! After that epic post I will end so you can rest your eyes, LOL, unless you want to see a few photos on the facebook page!
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Thursday, May 29, 2014
Summer 2014 Plans
We will be at Healing Earth from 28 June to 20 August 2014 inshaa Allah. During that time, we hope with Allah's Permission, Blessing, and through His Rizq and Mercy to complete the following:
If time and money permit, we would also purchase a 3000 gallon water tank, build 2 cob ovens, and put up a 2 1/4 acre fence around the barns. We pray that Allah enables us to complete these things and more.
Want to visit, learn a little, join our Ramadhaan studies, or help out? Drop us an e-mail on healingearth@ymail.com inshaa Allah!
- purchase a used stock trailer
- plant 100 tree seedlings (50 hazelnut, 50 Honeylocust)
- plant some quick growing vegetables for summer consumption like lettuce, spinach, etc.
- plant 2000 sunflower seeds around the perimeter of the 28 acre piece of land
- build 3 x 144 sq.ft. bathroom structures
- build a 200 sq.ft. kitchen structure
- build a 200 sq.ft. farm store
- build two of the four 200 sq.ft. barns we will need
- add playhouse, slides, hammocks, sand box, picnic area and more to the children's playground
- construct a combination football/soccer/rugby field
If time and money permit, we would also purchase a 3000 gallon water tank, build 2 cob ovens, and put up a 2 1/4 acre fence around the barns. We pray that Allah enables us to complete these things and more.
Want to visit, learn a little, join our Ramadhaan studies, or help out? Drop us an e-mail on healingearth@ymail.com inshaa Allah!
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Sustainability: looking at what's around you...
So much about sustainability is meeting your needs with what is available naturally around you. The state plant for New Mexico is the Yucca plant. We are in the northeast, where it is too cool to grow it without greenhouse, but it is easily available from other areas of the state and can be bought in farmers markets.
I have just read these amazing instructions on how to make soap and shampoo from the Yucca root. Just HAD to share these links!
How to make soap from Yucca roots
Yucca root powder shampoo
I have just read these amazing instructions on how to make soap and shampoo from the Yucca root. Just HAD to share these links!
How to make soap from Yucca roots
Yucca root powder shampoo
Monday, May 26, 2014
Parenting without "Punishment"
Terminology is very important. We often, as parents, use the term
punishment with our children. They, in turn, use the word and think of
whatever they face in response to incorrect or bad behavior as
punishment. However, I realized something about the whole issue and feel
it is important enough to write about. It is important to understand the reactions, the reasons, and the process as parents and as children. If we have correct understanding and thinking about how we respond to our children, we will find ourselves naturally choosing appropriate strategies for their discipline and correction.Inshaa Allah, you can explain
to your children as I have explained to mine.
When they do something wrong, the initial reaction from us as parents may vary. If it was something dangerous like playing with the stove/fire, then they might have a smacked hand to instantly make them retreat from the danger. If they do something immoral, like lying, they might have a spanking or be told to face the wall. These are instant deterrents. Actions we take to immediately stop or respond to the incorrect behavior, that are meant to be unpleasant and so make the children refrain from doing it again. These should come with a clear explanation of what wrong action is being responded to and why. For example, "I smacked your hand away to stop you burning it on the stove. You must not reach for the pans or try to touch the fire on the stove, because you will get burned and it will hurt you." So the instant response is a "deterrent."
Some behaviors are only addressed by a deterrent and an accompanying explanation. However, if those deterrents don't work, then parents must look for alternative strategies, such as taking something away from the child that they like each time they repeat the undesired behavior. This has to be something that is effective for that individual child and their circumstances. If you tell the child they will not be allowed to play in the yard for that day, but they don't like playing in the yard and sit for hours with video games (may Allah protect all our children from that!), then it isn't an appropriate or effective correction strategy. The correction strategy must be based on things that the child will not like or want on a continual basis, to make them stop the undesired behavior.
In addition, there are bad habits or behaviors that may require a more lengthy correction plan. These are called, rectification programs. An example of this would be a child who continually speaks badly or causes fitnah amongst their siblings. That child may be separated from the others for a period of time, effectively cutting off communication until the self control to communicate positively is acquired or put into practice. During that period, it is important to provide them with the tools for rectification such as quotes from the Qur'aan, ahadeeth, and articles or books from scholars that address the behavior(s) to be corrected. It is best to make the rectification program for a short period of time, and then test the waters to see if there is improvement. If not, the program can be extended and further developed or intensified.
Throughout the process of addressing a child's dangerous, undesirable, or incorrect behavior, it is important that you explain what you are doing, advising the child that it is meant to set them right so they will please Allah and have a truly happy and successful life and aakhirah. In using the terms deterrent, correction strategy, and rectification program, you are informing the child of the purpose for your actions and also reminding yourself. You will find that you come up with far more appropriate and effective responses to your child's behavior when you think in those terms. Rather than take a blanket approach of looking at the wall for every offense, you will understand that different actions require different reactions and inshaa Allah find more success in your relationship with your children.
When they do something wrong, the initial reaction from us as parents may vary. If it was something dangerous like playing with the stove/fire, then they might have a smacked hand to instantly make them retreat from the danger. If they do something immoral, like lying, they might have a spanking or be told to face the wall. These are instant deterrents. Actions we take to immediately stop or respond to the incorrect behavior, that are meant to be unpleasant and so make the children refrain from doing it again. These should come with a clear explanation of what wrong action is being responded to and why. For example, "I smacked your hand away to stop you burning it on the stove. You must not reach for the pans or try to touch the fire on the stove, because you will get burned and it will hurt you." So the instant response is a "deterrent."
Some behaviors are only addressed by a deterrent and an accompanying explanation. However, if those deterrents don't work, then parents must look for alternative strategies, such as taking something away from the child that they like each time they repeat the undesired behavior. This has to be something that is effective for that individual child and their circumstances. If you tell the child they will not be allowed to play in the yard for that day, but they don't like playing in the yard and sit for hours with video games (may Allah protect all our children from that!), then it isn't an appropriate or effective correction strategy. The correction strategy must be based on things that the child will not like or want on a continual basis, to make them stop the undesired behavior.
In addition, there are bad habits or behaviors that may require a more lengthy correction plan. These are called, rectification programs. An example of this would be a child who continually speaks badly or causes fitnah amongst their siblings. That child may be separated from the others for a period of time, effectively cutting off communication until the self control to communicate positively is acquired or put into practice. During that period, it is important to provide them with the tools for rectification such as quotes from the Qur'aan, ahadeeth, and articles or books from scholars that address the behavior(s) to be corrected. It is best to make the rectification program for a short period of time, and then test the waters to see if there is improvement. If not, the program can be extended and further developed or intensified.
Throughout the process of addressing a child's dangerous, undesirable, or incorrect behavior, it is important that you explain what you are doing, advising the child that it is meant to set them right so they will please Allah and have a truly happy and successful life and aakhirah. In using the terms deterrent, correction strategy, and rectification program, you are informing the child of the purpose for your actions and also reminding yourself. You will find that you come up with far more appropriate and effective responses to your child's behavior when you think in those terms. Rather than take a blanket approach of looking at the wall for every offense, you will understand that different actions require different reactions and inshaa Allah find more success in your relationship with your children.
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Parenting: Communicative Problem Solving - Understanding Sorry
As parents, it is vital that we inculcate in our children the true concept of feeling sorry, having regret for wrong actions. This is because being sorry is a key ingredient in the recipe for tawbah - sincere repentance to Allah. If there is no regret and sorrow at doing a wrong, then there is no sincere repentance and also no conscience, which is part of developing morality - the knowledge of right and wrong. These are the questions posed to our children
Questions:
The extension is an additional few prompts or reminders to correct thinking or bring about more in-depth thought on the subject.
If Allah sends us a punishment or test, what is the best thing for us to say? What is the best reaction to have in such situations?
The Sad and Bad of "Sorry"
Questions:
- What does it mean to be sorry about something?
- What kind of actions might someone feel sorry about?
- What are some actions that you feel sorry about?
- Is is good to feel sorry about something that Allah sends us, like the life He decreed for us, a punishment, or a test? Why or why not?
- Why is it important to feel sorry about doing haraam actions and things Allah dislikes (makrooh)?
- What happens if you don't feel sorry about doing those things?
- If you say you are sorry to someone, but you keep doing the same
thing to them or being rude or mean to them, are you really sorry or
just saying it?
- If you did bad actions to a few people, but only say sorry to one or two, what does that mean?
- Can you tell if people say they are sorry to you, but don't mean it? How can you tell?
The extension is an additional few prompts or reminders to correct thinking or bring about more in-depth thought on the subject.
If Allah sends us a punishment or test, what is the best thing for us to say? What is the best reaction to have in such situations?
The Sad and Bad of "Sorry"
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Thursday, May 22, 2014
Natural Gnashers, Choppers, or in plain talk, TEETH!
One of the major issues in personal care is dental health. While we have striven to avoid commercial toothpastes containing SLS, chemical, and artificial ingredients, it is only this past year that we switched to making our own toothpaste and tooth oil. As we are living in Madinah, Saudi Arabia for 10 months out of the year, we are limited in what we can obtain. I have come up with these recipes, based on what is available.
Tooth oil:
I used a tooth oil years ago that was excellent, but very expensive. It was simply a sweet almond oil base with spearmint and peppermint essential oils, in a specific proportion. Well, I decided to make my own tooth oil, obviously at a fraction of the cost, and after experimentation, changed the recipe to this. Please note that I make this in a small essential oil bottle - 10 ml I believe.
Base:
Coconut oil (this has proven benefits for oral health and we found it preferable over the almond oil)
Additions:
20 drops each of spearmint and peppermint essential oil
40 drops of sweet orange essential oil
5 drops of thyme essential oil
5 drops of 4 thieves oil (or the equivalent blend - we use Germ Killer)
These amounts can be adjusted to taste, and the oils can be changed to others that are also beneficial to oral and dental health. Simply put two drops of the oil on a wet toothbrush and brush teeth, gums, tongue, and roof of mouth thoroughly. Although this is perfectly safe to swallow, you will have brushed the toxins off your teeth and mouth and you will be swallowing those as well, so it is best to rinse your mouth out thoroughly afterwards. You will have wonderfully smooth teeth and fresh breath, inshaa Allah.
Our homemade toothpaste:
This is a real mix and match of recipes I saw online and what worked for us.
Baking soda (fill 1/2 of a 4 fluid ounce container)
Essential oils: 50 drops sweet orange oil, 20 drops peppermint, 20 drops spearmint, 5 drops 4 thieves/germ killer oil, 5 drops thyme...or oils to your needs/taste.
Raw honey - add honey up fill the 4 fluid ounce container to 3/4 full (in other words, 1/4 measure of the container/`1 fluid ounce)
Stir up and add a few drops of water (or coconut oil) to the desired consistency.
Other recipes:
I plan to make this once we can obtain the ingredients inshaa Allah.
http://thepaleomama.com/2013/12/diy-remineralizing-toothpaste/
Also:
http://healthylivinghowto.com/1/post/2014/02/ditch-your-toxic-toothpaste-10-diy-toothpaste-recipes.html
Toothbrushes:
As for toothbrushes, we still haven't given them up (old habits die hard) so since last summer we made a conscious decision to buy sustainable, good toothbrushes. We all use Radius Source toothbrushes -
even the baby, maashaa Allah.
That said, our goal is to become totally comfortable with the full time use of miswak, thereby having a totally natural toothbrush from the twigs of the neem or arak tree. This is, by far, the best toothcare option as we know the Prophet Muhammad - sal Allahu alayhi wa sallam - said he would order us to use them before every prayer if it wouldn't be a hardship.
Oil pulling:
I have practiced oil pulling before and am looking into resuming it. While it is controversial as to how much it really does, aside from cleansing the mouth well, it certainly does cleanse the mouth well! You can find many resources on oil pulling, but one is here:
http://pulling-oil.com/
Tooth healing:
We have looked at these reports and others like them:
http://thepaleomama.com/2013/11/how-im-healing-cavities-without-dentistry/
http://www.thenourishinggourmet.com/2013/01/the-diet-that-heals-cavities.html
and plan to get these books this summer, inshaa Allah.
Tooth oil:
I used a tooth oil years ago that was excellent, but very expensive. It was simply a sweet almond oil base with spearmint and peppermint essential oils, in a specific proportion. Well, I decided to make my own tooth oil, obviously at a fraction of the cost, and after experimentation, changed the recipe to this. Please note that I make this in a small essential oil bottle - 10 ml I believe.
Base:
Coconut oil (this has proven benefits for oral health and we found it preferable over the almond oil)
Additions:
20 drops each of spearmint and peppermint essential oil
40 drops of sweet orange essential oil
5 drops of thyme essential oil
5 drops of 4 thieves oil (or the equivalent blend - we use Germ Killer)
These amounts can be adjusted to taste, and the oils can be changed to others that are also beneficial to oral and dental health. Simply put two drops of the oil on a wet toothbrush and brush teeth, gums, tongue, and roof of mouth thoroughly. Although this is perfectly safe to swallow, you will have brushed the toxins off your teeth and mouth and you will be swallowing those as well, so it is best to rinse your mouth out thoroughly afterwards. You will have wonderfully smooth teeth and fresh breath, inshaa Allah.
Our homemade toothpaste:
This is a real mix and match of recipes I saw online and what worked for us.
Baking soda (fill 1/2 of a 4 fluid ounce container)
Essential oils: 50 drops sweet orange oil, 20 drops peppermint, 20 drops spearmint, 5 drops 4 thieves/germ killer oil, 5 drops thyme...or oils to your needs/taste.
Raw honey - add honey up fill the 4 fluid ounce container to 3/4 full (in other words, 1/4 measure of the container/`1 fluid ounce)
Stir up and add a few drops of water (or coconut oil) to the desired consistency.
Other recipes:
I plan to make this once we can obtain the ingredients inshaa Allah.
http://thepaleomama.com/2013/12/diy-remineralizing-toothpaste/
Also:
http://healthylivinghowto.com/1/post/2014/02/ditch-your-toxic-toothpaste-10-diy-toothpaste-recipes.html
Toothbrushes:
As for toothbrushes, we still haven't given them up (old habits die hard) so since last summer we made a conscious decision to buy sustainable, good toothbrushes. We all use Radius Source toothbrushes -
even the baby, maashaa Allah.
That said, our goal is to become totally comfortable with the full time use of miswak, thereby having a totally natural toothbrush from the twigs of the neem or arak tree. This is, by far, the best toothcare option as we know the Prophet Muhammad - sal Allahu alayhi wa sallam - said he would order us to use them before every prayer if it wouldn't be a hardship.
Oil pulling:
I have practiced oil pulling before and am looking into resuming it. While it is controversial as to how much it really does, aside from cleansing the mouth well, it certainly does cleanse the mouth well! You can find many resources on oil pulling, but one is here:
http://pulling-oil.com/
Tooth healing:
We have looked at these reports and others like them:
http://thepaleomama.com/2013/11/how-im-healing-cavities-without-dentistry/
http://www.thenourishinggourmet.com/2013/01/the-diet-that-heals-cavities.html
and plan to get these books this summer, inshaa Allah.
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What we're reading in May 2014
This month is rather busy for us, as we finalized our Permaculture design project, are looking at the money available for the summer and prioritizing what needs to be done, and are trying to pack and prepare for our summer at Healing Earth. Reading has been very focused on what we need to know for the farm and preparing a new curriculum for our homeschooling. The girls are knitting gifts for their grandparents, who we will visit in England for 10 days before heading on to Healing Earth inshaa Allah.
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Wednesday, May 14, 2014
Permaculture Project Final Design: Part 3 Integral 28 Acre Map
2 2 x Animal complexes
Purpose:
To safely house the sheep, goats,
chickens, miniature cows, and donkeys/horses while providing enough space for
them to roam and graze when not taken out to pasture.
Design Features:
Four 12.5’x16’ barns with 50 feet of
chain link fence run from each to the next, forming a large courtyard area for
the animals to safely roam in. While 10 acres (20 x ½ acre sections) are available
for rotational grazing, this courtyard area provides a safe, lockable place for
the animals to be housed at night and if the family should travel. Each barn
can house up to 10 sheep or goats, 48 chickens, two miniature cows, or two
horses or donkeys. The chickens can feed from the livestock manure, keeping a
healthy environment.
We plan to keep 3 ewes (Dorset), 2 goats
(Nubian), 2 miniature cows (Jersey), 2 donkeys (Mammoth Jack), and 4 different
types of chickens, 48 of each type. Four chicken coops will house them, each
type being kept separate. One type will be in each animal complex. The other
two will be in areas where they are needed. The types of chickens are Jersey
Giant for eating and large eggs, Sussex for eggs and meat, Easter Eggers for
their unusually colored eggs, and Marans for their chocolate brown colored
eggs. The “gourmet” egg collection will be sold in the farm shop, at farmer’s
markets, and any other viable outlets.
There is room for expansion, as more
barns can be added within the perimeter fence, still allowing for a good-sized
central area. Rain catchment from the barn rooftops will be channeled into a 3,000
gallon water storage tank to provide drinking water for the animals, irrigate
the grass, and for cleaning out the barns. Drinking and feed troughs, as well
as grass will be in the complex.
3 20 x Gazebos
Purpose:
- To provide shade for the livestock while grazing on a rotation system
- To harvest rain-water for the animals to drink
Design Features:
Made of wood, these inexpensive 8’ x
8’ structures used for livestock shade will have metal roofs to harvest the
rain-water and moveable galvanized steel troughs will be in place for the days
they are grazing in that section.
4 2 x Wallapinis
Purpose:
Underground greenhouses with stable,
sustainable temperatures year-long to facilitate the growth of plants requiring
a different climate, delicate plants, and germination of seeds
Design Features:
Wallapinis will have a modified Plexiglas
roof to maximize aerodynamics in the high winds, to use fewer materials, for
aesthetics, and to provide more surface area for rain catchment to feed water
barrels inside, thereby creating moisture within a microclimate.
5 Farm Shop
Purpose:
To sell produce, eggs, herbs, baked
goods, dairy products, refreshments, and any other by-products or goods
produced by the farm. This in turn is hoped to provide some income for the
general expenses. It is situated near the state road, Route 39, with nothing
around it for about 19 miles towards the east and 5 miles towards the west.
There is little to be found along the route, so it will serve as a stop for
refreshments and organic food supplies. It will also be used as a check-in and
check-out station for the pick your own organic orchards.
Design features:
Wooden 10’x12’ shed used so the shop
can be up and functional as quickly as possible. Eventually, it is planned to
cob around it, to provide insulation, strength, and aesthetics in line with Healing
Earth’s farm and architecture.
6 Pick Your Own Organic Orchard &
Picnic Grove
Purpose:
To be a source of income for Healing
Earth, create a micro climate, wind break, and encourage rain.
Design features:
A selection of trees including:
various types of apple, pear, peach, nectarine, plum, cherry, fig, and
pomegranate. Companion planting will be employed to encourage beneficial
insects, to add nitrogen to the soil, impede grass growth, create a
microclimate, and additional food source. A chicken coop in the area will be
used to fertilize, eat pests and fallen fruit.
Picnic grove will have gazebos with
wooden trellis roofs for shade and grapevines planted at the base of the posts,
to provide shade and food. Insect repelling plants will be planted around the
perimeter and natural seating by way of rocks or wooden benches will be in
place. Fire rings or barbecue pits will be built beside them for picnicking.
7 Family Orchard
Purpose:
To provide family food supply, this
orchard’s fruits and nuts will be eaten fresh and also dehydrated, canned, or
frozen for long term storage.
Design features:
Trees are all circled with mulch 6
inches from the trunk and the mulch ring is circled by rocks. The mulch
provides cover which retains the moisture in the earth and the rocks provide a
natural watering system by gathering condensation overnight or in wet/damp
conditions and it rolling down into the ground. The mulch also eventually
composts down to nourish the earth and rich compost can still be added around
the trunk and under the mulch. The trees and berry bushes are saddling the
naturally occurring swale the runs down from the house to the vegetable garden,
benefitting from household grey water run-off. The bushes are planted in a
zigzag formation to maximize space and assist gravity with the irrigation
system.
A chicken coop will be built in this
area so the chickens can free-range, fertilize, and eat any pests & fallen
fruit.
8 Vegetable Garden
Purpose:
- To provide food for the family
- Excess and scraps for the animals
Design features:
A well mulched area, organized into
rows for easy access, this falls at the end of a natural swale running from the
northwest corner perimeter wall of the housing compound. It will be supplied
grey water as well as have rainwater channeled to it when it rains. It will be
served by a nearby composting unit for fertilizer and is beside a composting
toilet and tool shed, for convenience.
9 Flax field
Purpose:
- To grow flax for domestic cloth needs
- To make rope and twine
- Fibers for cob mixture
- Organic matter for composting
Design features:
½ acre field, which is enough to
provide approximately 44 yards of fabric, will be sown. Specific types of flax
will be sown to ensure a good quality, softness, and soil management.
10 Grains Field
Purpose:
- To provide the yearly grain needs for the family
- Straw bedding for animals
- Straw for cob building
Design features:
Plant 2-3 acres of diversified crops
covering many grains and grasses that are very expensive to purchase. The
varieties will include: hard and soft white wheat, einkorn and emmer wheat,
kamut, spelt, amaranth, millet, oats, quinoa, sorghum, and the grass buckwheat.
This gives the best chance of having sufficient grains, so if one doesn’t do
well, there are others to compensate.
11 Zone 5 Forest/Tree Nursery/ Pick your own
nut orchard
Purpose:
- To have a 3 acre forested area as windbreak, source of wood for fuel and lumber, and seed clouding
- This will serve as a place to grow seedlings in a nursed environment, especially for the more unusual or exotic trees we would like to try growing and trees for sale
- Provide a different environment for a bee hive
- This area will also house a pick your own nut orchard, approximately 1 acre in size, open to the public
Design Features:
A special feature of this forested
area is the planting of Pinon Pine Trees. There are no cultivated pine nuts in
the USA, largely due to the length of time for the trees to produce. It takes
25 years to have an initial harvest and they reach their prime for harvesting
in 75 years. This is a planned source of income for our children, and the
generations after them. Considering that pine nuts are very expensive, with
only macadamia nuts being higher in cost, it is planned to be a long-term, high
income cash crop.
12 Existing Access Road
The state road, Route 39, borders
the southern side of the property. It is elevated from the land, with a sharp grassy
drop. It is always exceptionally green from the rain runoff, and we can use
this area to plant trees that require more water. This road is the main highway
that connects Texas to Taos, a major ski resort and natural building haven.
Cars traveling this route are potential customers for the farm shop, especially
as there is no pick your own or organic store within 1.5 hours drive.
13 Existing County Road
The existing county road, Homestead
Road, turns off the state road. The farm entrance and farm shop are accessed
from it. There is a wide enough section of land between the road and the
perimeter fence to allow parking for people who stop for the farm shop or the
pick your own.
14 External Kitchen
An external kitchen is established
in a 10’ x 12’ building northernmost on the property, housing the solar array
to run a solar freezer. It will include a cast iron wood stove, all food
supplies, and the outdoor cooking apparatus, such as the rocket stove and sun
oven. This will be used by the family until the houses are built, and later on
by guests, course and workshop attendees, and volunteers such as WOOFERS,
POOSHERS, and apprentices.
15 28’ Travel Trailer
This serves as temporary housing
while building the houses and other structures. It can sleep 8, so can be used
in the future for a guest house or accommodation for volunteers coming to work
on various projects with us.
16 Bee Hives
Purpose:
- Pollination
- Honey
- Nurture and restore bee population
Design Features:
Strategically placed in different
growing areas to pollinate the various plants and trees
17 Perimeter Windbreak/Privacy Screen
Purpose:
- Windbreak
- Firebreak
- Privacy
- Attraction for potential customers passing by
- Food for wildlife and humans
- Nature trail surround
Sunflowers will be planted first on
the inner side of the perimeter fence, both perennial and annual, to establish
a border and some nursing for tree seedlings. They grow up to 10 feet tall.
Wildflowers will be planted on the outer side of the perimeter fence, for a
lower cover, to attract bees and other insects for pollination and propagation.
Along the inside perimeter fence we will plant lilac, lavender, and New Mexico
privet hedge for long-term, lower, and fast growing cover. Then three layers of
varying drought resistant trees will be planted, which will make a dense
privacy border, a windbreak, firebreak, cloud seeding, as well as a pleasant moisture/temperature
controlled micro-climate.
Capitalizing on the dense and
aromatic privacy border, a pathway will be woven amongst them to provide a
beautiful and secluded nature trail for reflection, relaxation, personal
enjoyment, and access to the border trees and bushes for harvesting, maintenance,
and watering if necessary.
18 Internal roads
Purpose:
- The internal roads connect plants, trees, and barn areas to control where vehicles are driven on the farm
- They will also provide cycling paths for recreation
19 Cemetery
Purpose:
- To keep Islamic burial traditions
- To keep burial expenses to a minimum
- To provide plots for other Muslims in the surrounding areas
Design Features:
On the easternmost section of the
farm, midway between the northern and southernmost sections will be a ½ acre
Islamic cemetery. This section is the highest elevation on the farm and located
in a non-flood plain (a requirement for zoning), and the area least accessible
to pick your own customers. The cemetery will be surrounded by flowers and
hedges to provide privacy and help restore bio-diversity.
20 Bat houses
Purpose:
- To control the ever increasing and annoying mosquito population
- Reintroduce bats into the area
- Help restore bio-diversity
- To make nights more enjoyable
Design Features:
On the eastern and western corners
of the farm, running parallel to route 39, two wooden bat houses will be
erected. A 6x6x16 beam will be used as a post for the houses. By burying the
beams 3 feet into the ground, the post will be secure and out of predators
reach.
Note on the positioning
of various zones and fields
Purpose:
To ensure that family members get a
good amount of exercise moving from place to place in their daily lives. Health
and wellbeing of the family is paramount, and healthy organic food is effective
in conjunction with physical exercise. Exercise should be an integral part of
daily life, not something that has to be made time for or done in an artificial
way. In this way, all areas of the farm are surveyed on a daily basis and
everyone gets plenty of fresh air, sunshine, and exercise.
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